| To live at home or to move into university
halls is a dilemma facing thousands of first year undergraduate
students each year. Over recent
years there has been a small but significant rise in the number
of students living at home instead of moving into independent
living. It is estimated that in Britain this year over 1 in
5 first year students will living at home. The figures for
London are substantially higher, where it is estimated that
two thirds of freshers are continuing to live at home.
At the heart of this shift in the social
independence of students is government policy on education,
which leaves students under-funded. The burden of financial
survival means leaving home isn't an option for many students.
Chief Executive of the University and College Admissions Service
(UCAS) Tony Higgins, says: "Choosing a university or
college that is close to home is one way of cutting down on
your living expenses, and more and more students seem to be
bearing this in mind." Economic factors are evidently
influential in determining where students choose to live,
as shown by Queen Mary student Michelle Schofield, who says:
"I want to move out and independently but I'm scared
of getting into loads of debt that I'll be paying off for
years."
This growing trend may indicate that living
at home could be a good option, however, two thirds of all
students believe that those living at home do not gain the
full benefit of being a student, and fresher's magazines strongly
advise that you move out in your first year. So is living
at home really the wrong option?
First year students who have chosen to live at home can find
themselves disadvantaged socially, economically, and educationally,
compared to their hall-living classmates. All this I know
too well, as I'm a first year student who resisted the temptation
of a parent-free life and chose to continue living at home.
A decision I have regretted immensely.
The social disadvantages are often the most problematic, with
even the friendliest home student finding it hard to integrate.
Students living in the halls have a whole week to get to know
the other people on their course before the academic term
begins. This means many people have already grouped off before
the first lecture, leaving home students feeling like outsiders.
Ruth Bramwell, a student at the University of West England
says: "I really don't think I could have survived my
first couple of months at university if I didn't live in the
halls. It's the easiest way to make friends. I already knew
most of the people on my course before my first lecture as
we had been drinking together in the halls."
Home students do not benefit from the whole
university experience. They are often unable to participate
in their university's social life because they are unable
to travel home alone in the early hours of the morning. Whereas,
most students living in the halls have their university's
bars and clubs practically on their doorstep, and can travel
back safely with their flatmates.
Living at home may be perceived as a cheaper
option, but in reality it isn't. Home students can be left
struggling for cash, as most have to pay their tuition fees
(£1,100), ever-increasing transport costs (a yearly
travelcard can cost as much as £1,476 in London), and
a few pay rent to their parents, all out of their £3,005
yearly student loan. The government obviously fails to recognise
that living at home can be as costly as living in independent
accommodation as the maximum annual loan home students can
receive is almost a thousand pounds less than those living
away from home.
Surprisingly, making the choice to live
at home can also led to a decline in your standards of work.
Home students do not have their university's library resources
at their disposal when they need them. In my experience, lectures
frequently finish at 6pm or later, and with home students
living an average of one hour away from their university site,
they often do not arrive home until 7 or 8pm, by which time
they're too tired to produce work of a high standard.
In the absence of their own quiet study
environment it is also easy to be distracted by parents and
siblings. Craig, who is studying law in London, says: "My
little brother can be really irritating, he's always coming
into my room when I'm trying to concentrate. I don't think
I could move out though. I would miss my mom too much."
However, there can be an upside to living
at home. If you think you can cope with living with your parents
for another three years then at least home students know they
will always be on call to provide advice, money, and their
free "taxi service."
Home students can keep their friends outside
their university, which few students who move away manage
to do. They also don't have the pressures of learning to be
self-reliant; doing all their own shopping, cooking, cleaning,
and washing and ironing their own clothes, combined with the
pressure of settling into university and coping with the hefty
work load.
Thus, living at home can affect students
both positively and negatively, but what is the impact on
parents whose children choose to live at home? For parents
it can be a time of anxiety with the parental role undergoing
great change. Mullendore, author of the "Helping your
first year college student succeed" guide for parents,
says for both parents and students: "It is about renegotiating
their relationship based upon the student's new status as
a university student and adult."
If students are to live at home then parents
have a responsibility to understand the ups and downs of the
first year at university, to help their children make the
transition from college to university, and allow them to have
the freedom they would if living away from home.
If you don't want university to rule your
life, and aren't ready for the pressures and responsibilities
of self-sufficiency, then living in your parental home can
be a good option. You need to weigh out the positives and
negatives of living at home, to decide whether the option
would suit them. As for me however, I'll definitely consider
moving out next year.
Danielle Boobyer
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